Motivation?

Somedays when I climb out of bed I dont even feel like putting on chapstick let alone do my whole routine! When I go out later I always feel frumpy and blah. Sometimes all i can muster the energy for is some foundation and chapstick but even that little attention I give myself to do that makes me feel better. From what I have come to understand a lot of ladies out there have lost the motivation to do even that. I hear the age old "I dont need makeup to feel pretty" but honestly i think its an excuse. I think it might not just be about the makeup...its about taking a moment to really appreciate your face and do something self absorbed. Quite frankly I dont always care if my guy likes my eyeshadow or my lip gloss. In fact he hates lipgloss! Its all about what "I" like and feel pretty wearing. I like that part of the morning where I turn up my music and "doll up." I can wear a look that suits my mood or compliments my clothes. Dont you enjoy that feeling when someone compliments your eyeshadow handiwork or that new shade of lipstick? I know a compliment like that make my whole day brighter. I think that women should make the effort to do something uniquely thier's. So at least put on a coat of mascara for your own sake!